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Love Your Selfish Lover

Love and romance are the sweetest words ever heard on earth… It is commonly said that true love is spelled G-I-V-E. It is not based on what you can get, but rooted in what you can give to the other person. Love not what you receive but what you give. Thus true and genuine love is when you reach the point where the happiness, security, and development of another person. Love is as much of a driving force to you as your own happiness, security, and development. But are all the romantic relations based on self dedication and sacrifice? What if your lover is selfish to the extent that instead of giving you the comfort of romance he/she always thrives to receive it from you? Selfishness in romance is the detrimental aspect that drains out the lovely romantic experience. The essence of any relationship is the mutual sharing, caring and love. But if one of the partners is motivated by selfishness, instead of the mutual bond there will only remain a life of adjustments. A selfish...

Our Selfish Love

In the matters of ill demented love there is no cure-all. There are only elevated states of emotions that, sooner or later, sicken all of us. When it comes to love we better bring everything to the table making sure there are no cards left unturned and above all no skeletons hiding in our closets. Are these sound theories? Maybe they are, but we should always walk into a relationship with the understanding that our past will keep dragging us down, leaving our minds and bodies staggering amidst the storms, and in due time slapping us back into the present to strive to keep us above the water. In reality this could only happen, if we allow it. Be aware that we will be able to shake those monkeys of our backs, and we will ultimately recover. It's a long lasting process, but patience and persistence are key elements. Nonetheless, self-control and motivation will seize the moment and play their role. Love has plagued our hearts since the beginning of time, enclosed our f...

Go Your Own Way!

Loving you Isn't the right thing to do How can I ever change things That I feel If I could Maybe I'd give you my world How can I When you won't take it from me You can go your own way Go your own way You can call it Another lonely day You can go your own way Go your own way Tell me why Everything turned around Packing up Shacking up's all you wanna do If I could Baby I'd give you my world Open up Everything's waiting for you You can go your own way Go your own way You can call it Another lonely day You can go your own way Go your own way