In the matters of ill demented love there is no cure-all. There are only elevated states of emotions that, sooner or later, sicken all of us. When it comes to love we better bring everything to the table making sure there are no cards left unturned and above all no skeletons hiding in our closets. Are these sound theories? Maybe they are, but we should always walk into a relationship with the understanding that our past will keep dragging us down, leaving our minds and bodies staggering amidst the storms, and in due time slapping us back into the present to strive to keep us above the water. In reality this could only happen, if we allow it. Be aware that we will be able to shake those monkeys of our backs, and we will ultimately recover. It's a long lasting process, but patience and persistence are key elements. Nonetheless, self-control and motivation will seize the moment and play their role. Love has plagued our hearts since the beginning of time, enclosed our f...